LIFE LESSONS: If people don’t respect themselves they won’t respect you. If people don’t love themselves they won’t love you. Period.

They might need you. They might grasp at you. They might place you on a pedestal ( come down quickly of your own will, lest they shove you off!) or place expectations on you that are not yours to fulfill.

These last 45 days have been cracking me open even more. Yet life brings you lessons in so many ways, deepening my awareness and allowing me to expand in forgiveness.

Great joy from creativity, Soul expression and Soul calling. When you listen to the whispers that have invited you into yourself since childhood, giving them the mic…you can’t go wrong! Deep joy and gratitude. Blooming into extra-ordinary experiences and expressions.

Aligned with this greater awareness, a few friends have fallen off and a romantic possibility has shown it’s true colors.

Being compassionate with ourselves isn’t weakness, it’s a path to true strength and a solid spiritual foundation for you life.

Understanding even more how loving ourselves impacts our lives, I am re-committing to deeply, lovingly and compassionately loving myself.

As Spring approaches, how can you re-commit your Soul? To really listening to the whispers that will guide you to your deepest joy and expansion?

“I know as I love and value myself, I love and value everyone and everything.”

Take a deep breath: where have you been excusing the behavior of others? Where have you been putting yourself last? Where have you been calling it “being non-judgmental or being spiritual” and accepting the unacceptable?

loving me and loving you <3 V

Over a decade ago I shared with a man I was dating at the time, that I had a recurring dream of butterflies flying around me and landing all over me. He just looked at me and smiled.

Months passed. One day he said,” Do you trust me?” I said,” Sure.” He said put this on,” as he gave me a blindfold. I put it on and walked down the stairs, into his car and we drove and drove. We laughed and talked. What a sight I must have been, a blind-folded girl in a car?

Blind-folded, I needed to let him lead. I had to trust him. I knew he was trustworthy. Time and time again he had shown me this. I was still a little nervous and used to my independence. This was quite different to say the least!

We parked. I had to hold his arm and go up never ending steps. We arrived somewhere and I heard people talking about me all around. “Why is she blindfolded, what’s going on?”

He said,” Do you trust me?”

” I wouldn’t be the blindfolded fool I seem to the world right now If I didn’t, Michael.”

” Hold out your arm and relax,” he said.

I did. Time passed slowly. Then he finally took the blindfold off.

Joy. Beauty. Love. Dreams come true.

Moved to tears as I saw blue, yellow, orange and so many other butterflies on my arms, my chest, they were on my head and on my shoulders. I was covered in butterflies, in trust and love.

I was blessed 

Trust what is worth trusting. Trust those that have earned it. Not through tests and trials of your own making. Trust those that shine bright with true intention and love themselves. When we love ourselves enough to make our dreams come true, we will love others into their own dream making realities as well!

True story 
~vcc

What do feminine leaders, powerful healers and creative visionaries all have in common? They are usually more than commonly intuitive AND working a Soul contract and Soul Purpose to birth BIG shifts into the world! I know this because it is my deepest pleasure to guide and support these purposeful, beautiful badasses.

As purposeful, creative visionaries we need support that goes beyond ordinary, we need EXTRA-ordinary wisdom. We need deep dives, modalities that traverse multiple dimensions AND space to INVITE powerful breakthroughs and SOUL-EMBODYING shifts!

My eyes fill with tears each day. I often dance after a session! Each soulful deep dive, each past life regression, hypnosis belief-paradigm shift, each inspiring intuitive session, each “wow” after my clients return from their own cosmic journey… has me working in the expansive zone of Spirit.

Don’t hold back. Get the support you need. You are not alone and changes can happen so quickly because your Soul is waiting for more EMBodying than you can imagine!

((((HUGE))))  V

Tons of things to cross off my list on this Sunday. I have been moving through them with precision and calm. SO Virgo and so it feels right to get this note down about Full Moon in Virgo!

First off, many have been called to task this past week. If you have been all like ” yeah, I’m so relaxed and like everything is flowing” mode of Pisces…this FULL MOON IN VIRGO is turning that kaleidoscope of multi-awareness into singular or pure focus!

What does it all mean? Sun in Pisces invited us to relax or even to let go of some conscious limitations. We have either been chilling with the mermaids or dealing with some unconscious gunk that we cannot even begin to understand sooo…what’s a cosmic Soul to do?

TAP into the POWER of the FULL MOon in Virgo!

Full Moons are all about all your ideas, seeds and projects coming to fruition…how have things worked out for you? What works, what doesn’t?

The Full MOon shines the full light on you and your world and it’s time to really feel the goodness and the shadows because at the end of the day…ALL of it needs to be embraced for you to move into your full power! That means yes, loving even the stuff you are embarrassed about. And did you ever notice, the stuff you feel so self-conscious about isn’t even noticed by others! It’s all in our minds or hearts for that matter and it’s time to release.

So take this FULL power and focus of the moon and join it to Virgo. Virgo is represented by the VIrgin. Traditionally the virgin has been seen as literally “virgin” but what I am talking about here is the metaphysical meaning of Virgin which is “belonging to your SELF.” Allow this Full Moon to bring you back to your SELF!

The Virgin is also connected to the vestal virgins and Hestia, the goddess of the hearth. Since we are still experiencing winter in some parts of the world, how can you hone your inner LIGHT? HOw can you tend to your inner flame? your heart? Your home? Whether it’s your body or home, allow yourself to really connect and ask,” WHat do I need to know right now so I a can be present in my life? WHat do i need to be aware of that I may be avoiding or running from?”

In most nightmares we run from the monsters, the Virgo Moon asks you to face them, for when you pull of the masks…they are aspects of yourself, reflected in another!

Personally, I was faced with some monsters this week and as peered closer..I realized it was TIME, high time, to release some stories I was telling myself!

Remember that what we live may shape us and serve us for our journey but it doesn’t need to or should it limit us. The stuff happened and it doesn’t mean it’s a statement or fact about our inherent lovable SElf 

Envision what you are wanting to experience. FEEl into what you are wanting to live and KNOW that it’s in the works. Your job, if you were to accept is to release, trust and keep allowing yourself to FEEL what you want to feel. NOt what the world says you should feel or mom, or your ex…what YOU, yes YOU want to FEEL.

EMBRACE. FOCUS. ALLOW and CLEANSE mind, body & Spirit…messages from the vestal virgin that wants to bring you home to yourself. WHy is home so important? It’s YOU. ALL stems from your core and your home, your vehicle ( your body/mind/spirit.

Allow yourself the clarity you really need to get Spring off to a great start! Equinox is near and people..we are getting reborn! So let’s clear the way!!!

Sending HUGE love to you! V
~vcc

3/16/14

Today, Great Spirit, I ask that you give me the fortitude to stay on course, to dance with faith and to dare GREATLY  Ashe, Aho, Amen, blessed be, V

“Be willing to be uncomfortable. Be willing to be scared. Thats how all things that mean anything are birthed.” ~vcc

We know that we are born into a cycle. Birth, life, death, rebirth.

We are pure potential. We can BE and DO what we believe we can…yet nothing is promised.

It would seem that parents should pass before their children and we should all go in our sleep in very advanced old age. Yet seemingly out of cycle things happen and we face loss at many spins of the wheel.

Take heart. Know that nothing is wasted. Life is truly a gift and the very truth is that none know how long they have in this particular life they are living.

We may have eternity as cosmic souls but “who” we are experienced as and how we experience others, changes.

You may never be prepared for sudden loss, so say your “I love your” and dance and sing and BE and DO now.

Life is a GIFT. Revel in its potential. Exist in its capacity for LOVE & EXPRESSION.
~vcc
3/3/14

My students, clients and friends always share that they have dreams where we meet and hang. Lately, people are sharing that we are hanging out in dreams…the truth is though, that I meditate EVERY day and I envision kindred spirits gathering and gathering. I envision talks, retreats and light workers shining the world into it’s healing metamorphosis.

YES, We are ACTUALLY connecting. It is telepathy my friends and the way the Universe works!

~Telepathy (from the Ancient Greek τῆλε, tele meaning “distant” and πάθος, pathos or -patheia meaning “feeling, perception, passion, affliction, experience”)[3][4] is the transmission of information from one person to another without using any of our known sensory channels or physical interaction.~

We are energy. Energy carries messages. Intention has energy and so do our desires. This means that when we say we want something or don’t and constantly think the opposite…we are sending opposing messages out there into the manifestation vortex. Try and stay as aligned as you can with desire, emotion, thoughts ANF actions. $h&t happens but always get back on the aligned path. This allows for the Universe, you intuition and guides to support you in what YOU really are here to do AND create! much love, V