New Moon brings in new beginnings. Spend a moment and really BREATHE.

What do you really want to FEEL this New Moon? Why do I ask this? because Taurus is all about the earthly pleasures and exemplifies embodying all manner of sensual experience and that means it’s a prime time to invite what you truly want to FEEL in your life. Taurus is the earthy feminine earth sign and She is weaving her magick thru us

This New Moon in Taurus highlights the body, sensual desires, your bank account so pay attention to your finances, how you are treating your body and what sensual desires you are denying or needing to expand with!

So I don’t know what your plans are tonight…but I’ve got a hot bath running and some delicious oil to pour on my skin. My massage is booked for this week and mani/pedi is also booked for tomorrow.

Mmmmm…it’s gonna be a delicious month I feel. THAT’s what I am inviting in blessed be, V

Ahhh the Full Moon lights up the sky in a reddish hue and dressed in the sign of Libra. The full moon represents the surge of power within and without. It is known as the time of greatest power and is symbolized by the hide tide in the Soul’s ocean. There is much flowing now. Expect some tears, sorrow, misunderstandings and with luck, a side of joy as well.

This is the first blood moon eclipse of what is thought to be a very prophetic tetrad of blood moons. It begins the same day as Passover. The Sun begins to move in to Taurus at the end of the week, Mercury and Uranus gather, as do Venus and Neptune. Eclipses are thought to precede big events.

This Full Moon in Libra comes enters bringing the themes of RELATIONSHIPS and balance. The emotions are highlighted at this time. Relationship is not just about people or others.

It may be bringing up and shedding light on our relationship with food, sex, purpose, intuition and our bodies. The Sun in Aries is all passion, pioneer, action and aggression. We are in for some intense times. The moon and sun as well as the cardinal cross that awaits, creates TENSION and the energy will express itself one way or another.

Remember that these astrological dances are not the CAUSE of the issues, they are the stage that is set perfectly so the characters may express and show themselves. Pay attention to what is shown, seen and experienced. Take note.

It’s really time to see things as they are. If you’ve been hiding in the guise of victim you will be slapped with you your own beliefs. Remember that you have created the circumstances you are experiencing.

It is a time for us to own how we view things. You might believe that someone else is attacking you and perhaps it’s your shadow holding up a mirror. Beware of emotional eruptions that came from assumptions, lack of awareness and stubborn perspectives.

If you choose to express your truth at this time be prepared for interesting reactions, as all parties will most likely not agree.

While there may be fireworks and waterworks going on, there will also be a chance for deeper connection as we clear away misunderstandings and old emotional habits that no longer serve us.

Suggestions:

• Dig deep. What is your part in the emotional turmoil that is rising?

• Have you squelched your anger and now it’s being expressed in a way that harms you? Looking at self-sabotage here.

• What do you want balance with? More movement, less thinking. More loving less doing? Look within and ask your heart where your relationship with your inner child, inner critic and inner lover need forgiving, nurturing and expression.

• It’s a great opportunity to grow! <3 let’s take it on!

• The lunar eclipse on April 15th is the first of four consecutive total lunar eclipses, also known as a tetrad. The next three eclipses will occur on October 8, 2014, April 4, 2015 and September 28, 2015.

Anyone who is born to support and heal has come across this issue.

As healer’s we SEE, FEEL And SENSE the person’s potential! We know in our Soul that there is good/God in all of us. So what are we to do?

We see the deception, pain and stories another can be living out and as the healer/visionary/intuitive/teacher archetypes rise up in us…we may feel to say the least CONFLICTED.

What if we were sent to support these people through transformation? What if holding space for this and being patient is exactly what you are called to do?

I love this story:

The Scorpion and the Frog

A scorpion and a frog meet on the bank of a stream and the
scorpion asks the frog to carry him across on its back. The
frog asks, “How do I know you won’t sting me?” The scorpion
says, “Because if I do, I will die too.”

The frog is satisfied, and they set out, but in midstream,
the scorpion stings the frog. The frog feels the onset of
paralysis and starts to sink, knowing they both will drown,
but has just enough time to gasp “Why?”

Replies the scorpion: “Its my nature…”

I always say: KNOW YOUR ANIMAL

Yet I have also fallen into this dilemma, trusted and suffered. Thankfully recognizing things as they ARE does not mean that we cannot hold space for vast transformation. In fact, if we do say NO to the human scorpion, I dare to hope against hope that they..might EVOLVE?

I hope so.
Not on my back though!
or my time, or my heart or my money.

Yes, it’s ok to swim without carrying the scorpion…and allow your SELF to evolve past that limiting bs that you have to support everyone no matter how painful it is to you.

Loving you,
V

~vcc 4/14/14

When we are wanting to call true love in, we often get caught up in our intentions, vision boards, the twin flames and “the meant to be.”

I believe that while we co-create reality there are many parts of us going the dance , including our shadow. SO what we call to ourselves isn’t always what it seems. It’s really an amazing lesson wrapped up in a lovely or not so lovely experience.

I have alot of experience in this. My first boyfriends ( yes more than one) were at 4-5 years old. I started dating at 15. One thing I have experienced over and over in my life in relationship is BEING LOVED, ADORED and VALUED. So when the opposite shows up, it can’t live in my world for too long. It’s unacceptable. My inner Aphrodite literally rises up and shakes me up. The Love Goddess within doesn’t stand for inauthentic exchanges and that’s a good thing!

I have also experienced LOVING deeply and completely on all levels. Many soulmate relationships. Proposed to 7x with ring before age of 32. I wasn’t ready in the beginning. I wanted to be unfettered and “know myself.” I embraced my Soul communication at a young age and I was struggling since my 20s to find a way to master and own my Soul work.

Later I was also engaged and was a step-mom to three kids. I was able to leave all these relationships with love and peace in my heart. I was convinced that the Universe was guiding me and that there was a reason these relationships weren’t forever. At this time as my business finally is in a place that allows me to feel I can step out there again, I am ready.

There are a few things that I have gathered along the way…

* Remember that we are under no obligation to be married or with children at any age. Times have changed. Pressures may remain but we can truly create our lives more than ever before. This means that YOU or HE/SHE won’t settle as quickly as people may have in the past.

* This freedom ROCKS and SUCKS. The rules of the past enacted a mating ritual that needed in marriage whether it was fulfilling or not because fit worked ie. power/status/resources/children. The new rituals that we are creating leaves us free-floating and gaining awareness as we go along.

* FB, Tinder & dating sites make NEW people available all the time. It’s fun , maybe but gets old. If someone is passing you up, they weren’t your man/woman to begin with.

* Take time to see who is who. We all look shiny & fab. It’s a matter of time when we are runny-nosed and bleary-eyed. Love the real being human and SPirit not the amazing mate they are on paper or website.

* Just because it feels so good when you are together…doesn’t mean it’s meant to be. The moment and exchange might be meant to be. Anything beyond that is an assumption.

* Just because you looked in their eyes or they looked in yours and said, ” you are so special” doesn’t mean you are getting married. It doesn’t mean that you aren’t either.

* Just because you feel and it’s the love of your life, doesn’t mean that they are… “WAITING” for them to grow up and realize UMMM it just won’t do. YOU deserve MORE. I’ve been stalked, it’s not fun. If it was meant to be, I would’ve said yes. I’ve waited for someone to heal, he never did. Take your time AND face the truth.

* Soul stirring, mind-blowing, body ablazing sex…can sometimes be just that. God bless it anyway 

* Sometimes people come in to your life, sweep you off your feet and then leave. They weren’t ready. They weren’t the One but they definitely showed you something?

I think ASSUMPTIONS are what hurt us the most. It’s not a monogamous relationship till you’ve both agreed. It’s not polyamorous till everyone has agreed. You are not moving in till you do. The power is in the moment and as we build a foundation with someone, it’s good to check into our assumptions.

Where did you have a better experience? Were they a messenger of something more aligned to come? Did they reflect a shadow or fear to you ?
Did they show you how GREAT it can be, just not forever with them?

We are all in the end, soul mates. Made from the same stuff, dancing our mirrored souls to each other. Sometimes it’s not pretty but it’s always worth it.

So keep holding the FEELINGS that you want to feel and allow the person to enter your life. Keep your heart open  I am with you in this experiment and excited for what is unfolding. Mmmm delicious love.

Love is all, V